Every break-up has a different story - it might be a long-term or short-term relationship, issues with third party or simple misunderstandings, through calm talks or raging fights. Whatever the cause is, the effect is quite similar - I hate going through this post break up thing but really I don't have a choice so let's just get on and be done with it fast.
While going through the process, your mind would try to think and replay everything that happened and what could have happened. Then conflicts within will begin to arise - just when you think his a heartless jerk, a voice within would say that he's just confused. When you think about all the reasons to give up, the voice would say don't let go. When you think he doesn't love you, the voice would say he just don't know how to express it clearly to you. And it goes on for days until you decide which to follow. Like they say, the heart is the last organ to stop when one dies, I guess that applies to break-ups as well. Because the heart is the one who wants you to keep fighting despite of everything, I'm not even sure if what it says is true. They say, listen to your heart because it knows your true feelings but should I really follow it?
I am at this stage right now, my mind is telling me all the logical reasons why I should just let it go.
1. I am not happy, the connection is lost
2. It's not working and I don't know how to make it work anymore, It's draining!
3. He's not totally ready to commit and give his all
4. He's uncaring and unloving because he doesn't have a clue on this relationship, big EXCUSE
5. He's no longer willing to make the relationship work - he gave me a "5"
But my heart would only say "Don't Give Up!" it's not thinking obviously since it is based on what I really feel inside. Is this really what the heart is saying coz I want to remind the heart that it took 5 years to open up again but it ended in less than three months. I am not going to allow it to get hurt again - but then it whispers I am stronger now. Oh common, I'm talking to myself aren't I? That's the effect of break up so if you are like me, it's normal. But it would help if you can talk to someone not just yourself.
I try to think again that maybe I just love the idea of being in a relationship and not really the person that is in the realtionship. That's why when the relationship was not the one I expected it to be, I got disappointed. Now I just realized that you should focus on the person not the relationship itself, because if you love the person no matter where the relationship goes, it will keep on sailing.
Another thing I learned about this relationship is ask for help before making a big decision like breaking up, even if the relationship is between the two of you, sometimes you need to seek advise from couple who has been through ups and downs. Those people that both of you can trust and is willing to help out.
I just realized all of these while I'm writing right now, I know it's not connected to my topic but I'm writing it anyway.
All I can say is that take your time, don't rush things. Listen to your heart and mind, weigh things and listen to what others say.
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