I bet one or even most of your friends have told you this phrase after the break-up that "Time heals all wounds" and that "Time will pass...". Indeed, time does pass but it does not heal. It is what you do with your life when time is passing that will heal you.It is like people are saying that "You just sit there and in time you will be okay already, no more pain, anger, hatred and fear; Time will wipe away all those feelings." Really? And do you believe that? I mean how long is this time? 3 months? 1 year? 3 years? That is just ridiculous.
Though as time passed by, you do feel better but when something reminds you of your ex, you're back to square one again. Time can push trauma deep inside to hide the pain, but the root of the problem is still there, it isn't resolved; you're just covering it.
The last tip I've got from Amelie is that the only way to heal is to walk straight through your pain and release it by taking action and not just by letting time pass by. So you need to get yourself together, don't waste time and don't rush time also; you may do does simple tips mentioned in my previous blog. Just remember time does not heal, but healing does take time.
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